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ac·count·abil·i·ty

Pronunciation: \ə- ˌ ka u̇ n-tə- ˈ bi-lə-tē\

Function: noun

the quality or state of being accountable ; especially : an obligation or willingness to accept responsibility or to account for one's actions accountability >

By definition, wouldn’t you agree that accountability has almost vanished from society? What comes to mind when you think of the Enron CEOs, Wall Street executives, John Ensign, Manny Ramirez, Ted Haggard, or Judas.

In my mind I think, lack of accountability . What if those mentioned above had a person or a group of people that held them accountable – especially in their greatest areas of temptation? Would their choices have been different?

One of the best benefits of a Small Group is the opportunity to build authentic, trusting, and long-lasting relationships. It is in this type of relationship that we gain a great gift – accountability. It begins with a simple invitation; “will you hold me accountable in the following areas?” 

I once heard that we all live three lives, one in public, one in private, and one in secret. 1 John 1:7 says, “But if we are living in the light, as God is in the light, then we have fellowship with each other, and the blood of Jesus, His Son, cleanses us from all sin.” (NLT) Accountability is powerful, in part because it brings our private temptations into the light. And when we live in the light, God’s power is available to us.

Of course, accountability not only keeps us from falling into sin and temptation. It also strengthens us in areas we want to grow. For example, you may want to be more consistent in reading your Bible, or to exercise more and get in shape. You may want to achieve specific professional or financial goals. Inviting others you trust to hold you accountable in these areas can be the difference between success and failure for you.

During my twenties, I was part of a Small Group with other young single guys. One night we decided to bring all of the major decisions we had individually before the group. We agreed that if the group did not think the decision was wise, it could  “veto” the matter. It was actually very freeing to talk through any life circumstance or decision with people that I totally trusted. In most cases, we didn’t outright veto very many things. But I do remember vetoing a couple of potential dating relationships. J

Do you have a group of friends like that? It’s invaluable to have people in your life that you trust enough to hold you accountable for the changes you want to make. The beauty of finding those people in Small Group is that you already share the most important value of an accountability partner, the foundation of your faith.

Next Blog – Fifth Way a Small Group will Change your Life.

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